Now that I've been a part of the Facebook world for three + years, I realize how immensely that has changed my blogging habits. It's so easy to go to Facebook and catch little glimpses into what my friends and family are doing. But I guess that's about it - little glimpses. As I look back over my blog post from the last four years, I notice that when I did share what was going on, it was a little more in depth than what I ever post on FB. I still try to keep up with a couple of blogs that are favorites of mine, and it's true that it takes more time to read what they post, but I also feel a better sense of connection with them because they've usually shared more in depth about a situation.
It seems like the more technology we have at our disposal, the more surface relationships have become. I can have access to almost 500 people's FB profiles, but do I respond to even half of their status updates/posts/pictures? No. Do we interact? No. There's simply no way I can comment on each post of each "friend," so although I might know what they are doing by their last post, I have no personal connection to what else happened in their day or how they are feeling.
I don't know if there is anyone who ever checks in here at my blog anymore, so perhaps if I take to posting now and again, no one will even know. Therefore, is it a good use of my time/focus/energy? I'm not sure. One thing I do know.......it gives me a much better journal of my life for me to look back on. I mean really........why would I ever want to look back at a facebook post that simply says, "It's been a good day; night all!" Down the road, I'll have no idea what I did that day or what the state of my family was or what I was thinking. And with all the things I DON'T remember these days, I need as much detail as possible if I'm to remember anything!
So, although I can't promise, I hope to post on here now and again. Do email me or let me know if you check in here; it's always good to know who's stopped by.
For now, I'll leave you (or simply myself) with this thought that is a good one for me:
Thoughts become things.......choose the good ones!
3 comments:
I'm here! Glad to see your post! Hope you're all doing well. :)
I check!! :) I'm not a good Facebook friend at all..haha! I completely agree with you on the the "superficial" aspects of it, I know at times its easier to pop on there and that blogging can sometimes take a lot more time. I always enjoy your posts, even if they're not that often! :)
xoxo
Denissa
P.S.
I painted the table! Not sure if you remember me trying to decide? Stop by my other blog, I did a post ;)
I check! Obviously not often these days...
Just wanted to say hello and that I do agree very much with what you wrote. I am even a facebook dropout. Not blogging too much either but I do love to look back and hope to get back into it. I <3 you!
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